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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is just a tiny sample size but every middle-aged, white, heterosexual female friend I know who wishes she were married but never met the right guy is overweight. Of course, a lot of people don’t want to get married but these wonderful women do.

I have been many different sizes and it’s sad but true that it was so much easier to find guys who were interested in me when I was smaller. It pisses me off how many, many people in lots of situations were nicer to me when I fit the standard of  “thin.” [/quote]

Those guys did you a favor. Do you really want to be stuck with the guy who will dump you when you get older, gain a little weight and have wrinkles?

I'd take a guy with weight any day who was a catch versus a really good looking man who wasn't so great on the inside.[/quote]

I see what you're saying, but some people change. My husband was attracted to me in part because I was small and probably wouldn't have pursued me at my current weight. But he is all around a great person and we have grown closer, so he is still attracted to me and appreciates me for much more than my body. He would never dump me for gaining weight and getting wrinkles. 
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