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Reply to "People with kids always expecting you to do what is convenient for them"
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[quote=Anonymous]Unfortunately, I agree with what everyone's said. OP, I hear that it's hard for you and it sounds like you are thinking down the line toward the possibility that you might not have children and so it might never be "your turn." There's a lot tied up in that beyond who goes to whose house. I would try to sort that out and look for support from people who really know what you're going through, which may not be your family (and I wouldn't expect SILs, as nice as they are, to be putting your needs ahead of their own or their children's, most people don't see that relationship as a sibling one). You could bring it up with them, but I'd bring it up to your brother(s) and not to anyone with a child under 3, honestly. I'd also be prepared for them to say, "We hear you and we care about you, but we have limited family time and we don't have 2 hours in the day to drive back and forth to hang out with you." Because that is probably the truth.[/quote]
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