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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I swear I was going to post a similar situation that you are dealing with today. Trust me, I know there are plenty of SAHM's who have been feeling like you and I feel forever. You guys have all my admiration. I am at my wits end. I not going to run down at list of things that I do for my kids and DW. I will point out one that drives me crazy. I go to work at 7:00pm and work Saturdays a couple of months. She has a 9 to 5. I have this "jacked up" schedule because I worked from home for 2 years prior while my DW had health issues while she was pregnant. When she went back to work I watched our....TWINS for over a year, by myself. We also have a 5th grade girl. I made a deal with management so I could be home to do the Daddy Daycare thing.Now I have to work my new schedule. The issue is during the week, I'm up by 5:00 getting things ready for the morning chaos. Clothes are ready, breakfast made, lunch pack( just started doing school lunches for my daughter) and we are leaving the house by 7:50. All during this time my DW is sipping coffee, reading a magazine and slowly getting dress to go to work. She leaves the about a 8:45. Very seldom does she pitches in to help in the morning unless I'm doing something that doesn't meet her approval. Usually it is hair or clothes. We used to fight about the "Johnny come lately" approach but now I'm to worn out to put up a fight. When I do talk to her about this problem and others. I get hit with the "are you calling me a bad mother" attitude. She is not a bad mother. But she is either lazy or spoiled.
[b]I don't want a medal. I want to be appreciated. That's it[/b].[/quote]

DW's listen up! This is what your man needs![/quote]

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