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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The sad thing is that if you speak up and ask for better treatment in a relationship,  the guy may decide you're too much  trouble or high maintenance and go find a different woman who thinks he's awesome just the way he is.  And holding out for the great guy may mean you end up alone.[/quote]

And this is the worst thing I have ever read on DCUM.  Scaring women into thinking if they hold out for someone who is kind to them and treats them right they will end up alone.

This very belief that women should take what they get because being with anyone is better than being alone.

The belief that expecting respect in a relationship is high maintenance.

This belief is misogyny at its finest.  The sad fact is that women shouldn't be in a relationship unless they are getting treated fine to start with and yet women for some reason believe they are worth less than a man.  Its  2021 and women still believe they are less than, they still question whether they should stay in a relationship that is clearly abusive, just go to the Relationships forum and you see it all the time, the question of should I stay and the numerous answers of run.

If a man wants you to think he is awesome just the way he is, and just the way he is means he is insulting, violent, abusive, controlling nah there are plenty of other men.  Why is that considered awesome, why is that considered ok or normal, its not, why is that ok at all.  It really isn't normal.

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