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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Nope. When somebody shows who they are believe them the 1st time.[/quote] Yes, true. But consider this: maybe she knew her marriage was failing and was afraid leaning into this friendship would prevent her from denying that. Maybe she was being abused and couldn't be there for anybody. Maybe she was terrified to say the wrong thing.[b] A rock solid marriage doesn't generally fall apart in just 5 years [/b]so she was probably scared to face truths that OP's situation would show her. Doesn't mean she wasn't a jerk... but, if she is able to apologize and recognize she failed you, I might give her another chance if you think she's otherwise a good person. [/quote] NP. I want to push back on the bolded. Five years is a long time-- plenty of time for things to go south in a marriage. Also, plenty of people divorce after being blindsided by an affair or other betrayal. See the relationship forum for a thousand examples.[/quote]
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