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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]Get a private investigator[/b] if you really need/want evidence. Also consult with a lawyer to discuss all your options. Just because you meet with a lawyer doesn't mean you have to divorce. Knowledge is power. It does sound like he's cheating. Lay low and gather proof before you confront.[/quote]

Do this... STAT.

Even if you need to borrom money from a friend or relative to hire the PI, it's worth it!

They'll do a deep dive on his social media presence, his calls & texts, when he has to "leave the house", you'll get it all.

Then you'll know for sure... hire the PI, like now. 
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Honestly, this money would be better spent on an attorney. Evidence gathered is unlikely to make difference in the divorce, and anyway, you already have enough access to devices to continue to monitor and you have seen enough to know the marriage is over.

Focus on getting a lawyer and preparing to get out.  [/quote]

Yeah, people always talk about "gathering evidence," but it won't matter.  Most states have no-fault divorce, it's not going to affect custody or child support or the division of assets or anything.

I think you're imagining that you'll confront him with the evidence and he'll just break down and confess or something, but generally speaking, whatever reaction you get won't make you feel better or give you closure or whatever you're imagining.  Just get a lawyer and divorce already.  [/quote]

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