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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Aren't most kids that are sexually abused called manipulative? My FIL, said the same when his lady friend told him her granddaughter was in trouble in school bcs she did something inappropriate to a younger boy. She was called a pervert by FIL and by her own grandma! She was 9! Not a thought to the fact that mom just allowed another guy to move in. Nope, not a thought that she started acting really, really strange out of the blue. She was called manipulative by her mom, who "washed" her hands off of her! Then the same starting happening with her younger sister! Mom still lives with that guy, but her DDS are grown-up and live in another state (college age) and are not seeing the mom.[/quote] Happens ALL the time, blaming the victim. So sad. [/quote] I’m a CSA survivor. I’m a master manipulator. How could I not be? I learned from a very early age to protect the secret and predator in the house at all costs. Hide myself, never tell the truth. Smile and fake it till I make it, because no one will believe me anyway. I’m also a ACOA, so it’s even deeper. [/quote]
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