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[quote=Anonymous]I think the biggest red flag here is that he has shown you that he might still possibly be interested in his ex, your cousin, whom you trust, has explicitly told you he is still hung up on her, yet you continue to pursue him.

You are pursuing someone who is emotionally unavailable. This is not the same thing as someone texting and spending time with you. People can be emotionally unavailable yet continue to communicate with, spend time with, and sleep with other people.

Why do you want so much to try and date someone who is emotionally unavailable, and if you cannot tell that he is emotionally unavailable, what is holding you back?

I have to agree with other posters that there seems to be a lack of emotional maturity here. I know that is probably really hard to hear but the vast majority of us have been there so you are not alone. My advice is to way slow down with this guy. Take the time to really pause and reflect on your own motivations.
He also seems really immature (what 30 year old guy posts gorilla glue statements to convey his interest in someone!? And is that photo of a guy even him? If not, then why is he posting a photo of a strange man on his ig. Also, regardless of the name on the hat, why is he posting free “swag”? He is honestly acting like he is 11.)

Has this guy really shown you that he cares about you, and do you really respect and like who he is, or are you more fixated on him “choosing” you.
Anyway, take care of yourself. I know you will do what you want to do this weekend, and maybe the idea of spending Valentine’s Day without a guy is too harsh for you to handle, but I hope you do not sleep with him. If you do that will just make it more complicated and your hormones will be involved.

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