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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you know how gross and traumatic it is as a child to be exposed to your parent's "romantic partner" overnights (ie loud sex noises) so close to an upsetting event like a divorce, death of a parent? Mature parents can wait a year after the divorce before subjecting their kids to that. I assume you don't have 100% custody, so you can get your "overnights" on the nights you don't have the kids. [/quote] You are assuming a lot here. What if the romantic partner is now your fiance and you want to go on a trip with the kids? The language is broad and you'd be violating an order in that case. Also you assume an overnight means sex. It can also mean sharing a beach house with both fams and not sharing bedrooms. [/quote] some of the clauses I’ve seen limit it to a certain time after the divorce. and getting engaged in under a year of dating seems imprudent. [/quote]
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