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[quote=Anonymous]What is the damage that you think will come to your husband's mother if she moves to the facility?  Do you know enough at this point to assess whether it may be a viable option?  It seems that you aren't able to accommodate her living with you, and she doesn't want to be where she is at least in part for valid reasons (wanting to spend her days in a more religious environment).  Assuming she wants to do the transfer in her times of lucidity, I guess I'm not understanding the full difficulty.  It doesn't seem that she felt she needed to live near you guys in her earlier years, and it's not possible for her to live in your home now.  If she wants to be closer to nuns, and she doesn't feel the need to be near you (or fails to recall that you visit almost daily) and the facility seems reasonable, would you at least want to look into it more closely?  Her "friend" does seem like quite a handful, but I could understand a religious woman feeling better in a religious community.  [/quote]

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