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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don't stay w him in the hope that they'll patch things up and have kids. She's lucky she doesn't have any kids now to complicate matters further. Staying married to a cheating spouse "for the kids" is no picnic. She's only 38 and can have a fresh start. [/quote] Op - I agree with this but I don’t think it’s my place to say that. I think she agrees too, but it’s complicated. She doesn’t know where she would go if she leaves, she’s lived in another country for most of her adult life but wouldn’t be able to remain if they split, etc. [/quote] Fear is driving her to make decisions, and she is trying to avoid doing something difficult, even though it’s going to be difficult either way. But sometimes lekkke have to learn these lessons for themselves. It’s so painful to watch, I know. Once a friend of mine was about to marry a guy who was clearly terrible for her, and her friend told her “when it ends, I will be here for you, without judgment.” That helped a lot when my friend filed for divorce after two months. [/quote]
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