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[quote=Anonymous][quote]If he loves you this will be the wake up call he needs. Sometimes a man needs to lose you to appreciate what he had. Grass is always greener as they say[/quote]

DH broke up with me, I was heartbroken, but after 2 months of angst and some ambivalent behavior on his part I told him I needed to move on with my life. ANd I started too, and luckily he realized that he had lost the best thing that could hapen to him. He came back to me, but the terms were different. He needed to demonstrate his commitment to me--no more wishy washy "I dont know wht I feel" bullshit. But as long as I had made myself available, he didn't know how he felt.

All that being said, I would hate to lead you on. It sounds like this is over. You're also both really young--in this case, the best thing is to deal with it as the PPs have suggestd and move on. you'll get over it and meet someone else who is ready for what you wnat. In the meantime, you need to learn how to build your own independent life--your own friends, activities, credit score, etc. I think it could be a very good thing for you. Finally, its natural that he's going to express some "confusing" behavior right now--don't let this distract you into false hope. He wants to break up? Make him deal with the consequences--sit down, and have a discussion about the finances and ask him to propose some solutions. Make him do some work. First thing is to get your deposit back and transfer ownership of the car in your name. This might be very tricky with financing if he's th eone on the loan. B the same token, he's the one on the hook if you don't pay, so it behooves both of you to figure this out.

If I were you, I'd either ask him to move out, break the lease, or move out yourself to a place you want to be in, but start the plans in motion now. [/quote]

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