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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You can tell the kids matter-of-factly what happened. Don’t get emotional with the kids about it, but don’t hide the facts. Taking the high road doesn’t mean deceiving them about the facts. “Mom decided she wanted to have a relationship with another man instead of me. That made me feel violated. We both decided it was better to get divorced because we don’t love each other as husband and wife anymore, even though we love you and want to do a good job parenting you.” That’s it. Don’t go into more detail than that. But don’t lie by hiding the truth.[/quote] Yeah, depending on the age of the kids I think it will become readily apparent when mom is instantly shacking up with her new boyfriend. Tweens and teens, especially....but even younger kids will wonder why mommy is with a new man and left the house (since she is the one that will have to leave if DH decides to keep the home).[/quote]
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