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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Check your Divorce Agreement.  Mine states that the Party will introduce the new SO to the other Party if/when the SO is introduced to the kids, which should not happen prior to 6 months.[/quote]

I do not know why anyone would put that in a divorce agreement. I certainly did not.[/quote]

It's weird but I've heard of multiple people doing it. Very controlling if you ask me.[/quote]

My ex tried to get it in our divorce agreement that we'd have veto power over each other's partners. Super controlling. And dumb, because I would have been able to veto, too, and would happily bide my time and use it the day before ex got remarried. [/quote]

That's not a morality clause. That's nuts.

Morality clauses aren't controlling. They just say that each partner tells the other before introducing kids to a boyfriend/girlfriend. The other partner can't stop it, but it's good to know so you can help prepare your kids for something that can be a traumatic experience and instead make it more pleasant.

Not enforceable but it makes people think twice sometimes about introducing kids to dozens of dates. [b]Most sophisticated divorce agreements contain them.[/b]

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Sophisticated divorce agreements?? They're not even enforceable and most involve shacking up. [/quote]

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