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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you wanted a FWB scenario and so did he.  It ended. Big whoop! You are a divorcee and your marriage to the father of your three kids did not work out.  I am sure that was a bigger disappointment than some guy you are boinking for 6 months calling it quits.

He was just not into you and neither were you into him. You both were each others  pandemic fuzkbuddies. Its not so deep. Seriously.[/quote]

Op here: I do not have 3 kids. Not that if matters now but I wanted to cancel my wedding and then divorce immediately. I had family pressure to stay and hand an accidental pregnancy. No, my divorce was easy. My marriage was always a miserable horrible mistake. No disappointment whatsoever. Just relieved and sad I did not get out at the beginning like I wanted. ExH and I were never in love and never meant to be. No connection ever. Just a stupid mistake that ruined me being able to start over.

This is very disappointing. I felt something for this guy and thought it could be long term. I do not need or want the legal or financial entanglements of remarriage.

It did not feel at all like a FWB situation at all. He was crying when he broke it off: he is not happy about it and says as recently as 2 days ago that he misses me a lot. He said he was getting serious and afraid of getting deeper.[/quote]

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