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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You said you weren't serious with him so why are you giving this so much though?

It would not have worked out for you in the long run.

Cut your losses and move on.[/quote]

OP here...because it seemed like it could have potential to last a very long time. I want a long-term relationship. I just don't want to get married again. I do not think family ever needed to know. He said before he was not looking for marriage and kids. We seemed to be on the same page. This threw me. I would not have mentioned to family if marriage and kids were not in the future...I feel that this could have been the long-term relationship I wanted that did not have to result in marriage. I see no reason family needed to know unless marriage was discussed. It wasn't. [/quote]

Naive. [/quote]

He never introduced anyone in his life. They only knew about one person years ago. And parents did not know. Just a sibling. So I do not think I was naive...his past history indicates family was not involved with any relationships and since this was likely not going toward marriage ever, it was reasonable to assume a long term girlfriend/boyfriend thing was fine. We discussed it. With that scenario, no family needs to know...it only causes problems. Like what happened.[/quote]

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