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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]30 year woman again. My husband is 100 percent accountable, deeply remorseful but more important he is also getting to the bottom of what caused him to act the way he did. He is deeply connected now to his love, empathy and shame in a way he had learned to dissociate and turn off. But absolutely not my fault or responsibility. This is the absolute worst trauma I have been through, worse than sexual assault, but that does not mean that divorce is the next best step when you and your spouse are digging out of the aftermath of him completely wrecking your life but also his life. The other woman is also deeply damaged also of course. In our case she presented as just in an “open marriage” but she knew he was lying and cheating so it is not different than most OWs. [/quote] Best of luck! [/quote]
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