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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds like a smart decision. I'd never move in with someone after 6 months (barring something crazy). Sharing finances that early in a relationship is nuts.

Honestly if this makes you run, do her a favor, and run. [/quote]

OP here. I understand why she said no. I’m just now worried about how serious she is about the relationship. We talked about moving in soon and she was for it. Then she said no. I don’t want to invest my time in a relationship if it’s just nothing more than a distraction for her. [/quote]

How did you make the leap of wanting to slow down 6 months is too soon to move into together to she thinks you're a distraction?

Like how did your mind even go there?

If this is how you act for a minor disagreement when someone says no, your girlfriend is smart not to move in with you and she's probably better off without you.[/quote]

OP here. We are both older and want marriage. I was very upfront what I wanted and so was she. She spends all weekends and 2-3 week nights at my place. Her lease is up at the end of this month. I thought it would make sense to ask her to move in since we have discussed it many times. A week ago she agreed she would like to move in because she is here most of the time. Then I ask her and she says no. She will be renewing her lease for the next 6-12 months. This to me feels like she isn’t that serious. [/quote]

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