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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I moved in with my college boyfriend and we dated for 4 years, lived together for 2.5.  Living together is what showed me that I did not want to marry him.  He was a wonderful person/boyfriend but once we lived together he turned into a complete homebody.  He never wanted to go to dinner, go out, or even to friends houses to hang out.  These are all things we did pre-living together and I enjoyed.  We also moved in together for financial reasons not just because it made sense for our relationship.

Once we broke up I did not want to live with anyone again until either we were engaged or I knew an engagement was imminent.  I ended up moving in my with my now fiance after only 8 months of dating, but was 5+ years older than I was last time and much more financially secure and knew it was the right thing for our relationship. It did take my fiance longer than I had hoped to propose which definitely caused some issues in our relationship, but overall it was still the right decision.[/quote]

So - living with someone showed you clearly that they would not be a good match for marriage.

Your conclusion from this gift was that you shouldn’t live with anyone- despite dodging a bullet from having done so. You then still moved in with a man after a contentious proposal.

Sounds like a great start to a lifetime of joy, haha[/quote]

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