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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think the open marriage guy is obnoxious but he right that there is no such thing as a happy, sexless marriage and any man with a normal libido is going to cheat or he will divorce, depending on his circumstances. Loving couples with libido difference negotiate this honestly but some people prefer to put their head in the sands. Not sure its really cheating if its sexless.[/quote]

Cheating ends marriages WITH sex too.  The cheating is the common factor.  Plenty of cheaters are still having sex at home which is why gynecologists have to break the STI news to women that thought they were in a monogamous relationship or the AP finds out the wife is pregnant.  They lie to the people they f*ck outside of marriage, just like they lie to their spouses.[/quote]

Yeah. I am going to wholeheartedly disagree with the statement: Loving couples with libido difference negotiate this honestly.  There is zero data to support this.

An entitled man (as 100% are that think it's okay to cheat) is going to think he [b]deserves [/b]to get sex outside of the marriage. He will perform all kinds of mental gymnastics to justify it: I make a lot of $, I deserve this fun/nobody gets hurt, it's just sex, etc.  Most male cheaters are grandiose and have high narcissistic tendencies that are only met by high amounts of external validation.  It really doesn't matter what the wife does at that point. [/quote]

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