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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm really not trying to body shame. For example, I don't care if someone is wearing a two piece bikini at the pool. But its a little weird for someone to wear something you would wear to the club while cleaning a house. I'm not talking about her wearing yoga pants and sleeveless tops, I'm talking about leather pants and such.[/quote]

As a fellow Christian raised by extremely strict parents, I am asking you to have compassion on her.  Cleaning ladies are very far from the top of the social ladder. I can, as a woman of color, understand that a person doing this work might feel the need to emphasize her femininity and attractiveness.  Just this weekend the kids and I were reading in Matthew 7-8 about the criticism that the choice of Jesus to dine with known "publicans and sinners" attracted from others in the community.  I would want to build trust with her and then -- if she is a young person who may not be fully aware of the impact her sartorial choices on potential employers and others -- gently raise the issue, not out of a wish to impose my standards on her but to cause reflect in a way that may ultimately help her achieve her life goals.  [/quote]

Why are you assuming OP is Christian? Didn’t she just say conservative/religious?[/quote]

The better question is why does PP assume it's her place AT ALL "to cause reflect in a way that may ultimately help her achieve her life goals."  [/quote]

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