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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m a lesbian trapped in a mans body [/quote]

I know this is probably a joke, but I am a man and have always been attracted to smart, fit, funny lesbians.  I've also been attracted to quite a few women who identified as straight but later changed teams or at least decided they were bisexual.

My attraction to lesbians has never led to anything romantic, but once once I had a lesbian friend who was obviously attracted to me too.  Her girlfriend (later her wife) got really angry and wouldn't let her hang out with me anymore.

This makes me wonder how often lesbians decide to start dating men?  I know two.

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So curious what attracts you to smart, fit, funny lesbians (vs. smart, fit, funny straight women), if you can articulate.  Since coming out and living openly as a lesbian, my relationship dynamic with men has changed, and I think it’s mutual.  I work in a male-dominated field and the change has come as a relief.[/quote]

I think I perceive women somewhat differently from the way most straight men do.   I have never liked makeup, hair dye, plastic surgery, etc.  I almost always prefer natural looking women.  I also often get a little uncomfortable and sometimes even nervous when women flirt or act in a very feminine, manipulative way.  I like women who just talk with me, say smart things, and appreciate my saying smart things.

I think what you are experiencing at work is related but a little different.  The guys are probably treating you as one of the guys.  That's great but that's not what I'm talking about.  I've had lesbian friends like that, too, but they weren't necessarily the ones who interested me sexually.

I've also noticed that when I write on the various DCUM boards about issues that have nothing to do with my sex, people who respond or comment on my posts usually refer to me as "she."

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ever consider dating a man ...?[/quote]

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