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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ok so if you accept you are no longer attracted to your spouse because they let themselves go, do you still have an active sex life or just coexist as friend? How to you make yourself feel ok about having sex with someone that's very obese if you're dawn to people on the thinner side?[/quote] If you’re really committed to this, you can think about how what you are drawn to is very much influenced by society. Magazine covers, commercials, TV, etc are big reasons we think thin people are more attractive. Just as curvier bodies used to be the standard of beauty. It’s not inherent. Lindy West said that she started loving and being proud of her body after she looked at pictures on the internet of beautiful fat women. I am sure all of us would find fatter bodies more sexually appealing if we saw them more (because literally anybody with some cute clothes and hair and makeup can look appealing). That said, I’m sympathetic to your predicament. [/quote]
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