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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thx everyone for your input. I really appreciate it. I'm thinking now I won't go. I'll just have to wonder, and hope, that my ex is happy. I wish I could go, but since there still is a "flicker" of attraction, I suppose it's not a good idea (though I'm sure I wouldn't act on it). The idea of a dinner with spouses just isn't appealing. I don't think any of the 4 of us would enjoy that, least of all me. I'd be too worried about DH thinking I was flirting (inadvertently) with ex-BF. Ugh, it ties my stomach in knots just thinking about it. [/quote] Why can't you ask him, without meeting behind your DH's back, whether your ex is happy? Why is this an all or nothing thing? There are less potentially destructive ways of finding this out. The fact the idea of dinner is so unappealing to you really answers the question here.[/quote]
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