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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It will be super easy to do once there. The problem is finding a reputable police office/detective.
For all you know they can find her "mom" take a bunch of her money and leach off your and her forever.[/quote]

But that’s when you do the dna test to prove the woman is actually the mother. That’s why I suggested you go with law firm / PI set up.[/quote]
Of course. But, how likely is the bio mom going to accept a DNA test? Makes OP's dd act and sound like a jerk. People that seek birth parents are vulnerable to scams like this. For all we know, op's daughter might end up causing her half-siblings to have divorced parents! Now, depends on the country too. I know in my EE country adopting in possible only after a child I a year old. And they prefer that parents are from the birth country even if they ow reside somewhere else. And birth parents can show up and take the child, no joke! Adoption agencies do as much as they can to place the child with relatives. But, who knows, maybe I am just a Debbie Downer and maybe mom has been looking for her child for years. Or mom will end up beaten to death by her husband when he hears this news.[/quote]

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