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[quote=Anonymous]If you are serious, yeah I think it is. My now husband said on our first date that he did not want kids. I was disappointed because I really liked him but thought "meh, lots of 20-something men probably feel this way, it'll change." It did change, and we are happy with a wonderful kid now, but it took a break-up and some come to Jesus talks about what we both wanted and were willing to compromise on. If he'd had a vasectomy but hadn't told me I'd have walked when I found out, and he'd have ultimately married someone else who required no compromise. It worked out for us, but I am not so naive to think that this kind of thing would work out for everyone without tremendous heartbreak in one way or another. [/quote]
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