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[quote=Anonymous]Hi op, I'm 38.5yo with a 4 yo and 18mo and just found out I'm pregnant, too.  Unplanned, was using protection, etc. I'm shocked. Dh and I are both unsure of what we want, but he's leaning more towards keeping and I'm leaning more towards termination. Having a third would make our comfortable lives pretty complicated. We live in the city and would have to find a bigger place. DH and I both work full time and will be back in our offices after covid. We aren't rich by local standards. If I knew that a 3rd kid would be healthy and without extra needs I'd be more comfortable with the idea, but I don't. And I'm terrified of what it might do to our current, amazing, dynamic.  I made an appointment for early January at a clinic, in time to still take the abortion pill. Making that appointment gave me a sense of relief, and I finally slept well last night. I'm still not sure I'll keep the appointment and terminate the pregnancy, but it gave me some sense of control and permission to not think about it for a little while.  [/quote]

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