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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP again. I'm not sure I understand the selfish/take take take part. I was [b]not[/b] trying to suck them into my world of parenting. Instead, I'm looking for an adult companion. Someone to spend time with as an adult. But I also take the point that maybe I should at least be open to a women who [b]wants[/b] to step into a parental role.

Tennis - that's a great idea. [/quote]

Are you not at all involved with your kids? Like you have a Nanny do everything for you? Don't go to sports or school activities? Don't take them to appointments or care for them while sick?

Then, I guess it's no baggage on you or your potential partner but you are probably a terrible Father.[/quote]

Gee, thanks. Actually, I have 50/50. I don't rely on help any more than my ex does - we share a sitter who sometimes picks up the kids from school and bridges until we get home from work. I do plenty of after school and weekend activities with my kids. I'm also free after they go to bed on half the days and entirely free on the other 50% of the days (except of course sometimes there's a game or a recital I'll want go to). What are you talking about with appointments? Last I checked, people don't ordinarily go on dates during regular business hours.[/quote]

I still don’t see why you care if she has kids if you can just go out on dates during the time you are both kid free. For most divorced people that is 50% of the time.  You don’t want another parent, so you don’t want a serious relationship.  [/quote]

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