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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In same boat here. We do it regularly but H isn't happy unless I act like I really want it, which is near impossible.[/quote]

Funny, I'm having the same issue with DW and "conversation".  We do it regularly, but W isn't happy unless I act like I really want it.  Odd.[/quote]

I'm assuming you don't realize what an utter asshole you are.  I'm assuming your wife does though.[/quote]

I suppose you could make the case PP was too flippant.  But he's pointing to a larger truth.  There are many reasons why couples stop having sex:  chemical imbalances, boredom, fatigue, etc, etc...  There are just as many reasons why they stop really listening to one another.

The difference seems to be that if the problem is one of verbal intercourse, the response is, "Outrageous!  There's no excuse at all!  Conversation is the sine qua non of the relationship!"   Meanwhile, if it's sexual intercourse that's dried up, you get "Oh well, it happens.  [b]It's clearly your partner's fault because he won't dust the blinds three times a week."[/b][/quote]

I was agreeing with you until the very end there....[/quote]

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