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Reply to "10 year old told me he thinks spouse is cheating on me -- advice?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I had a similar thing happen as a kid, at a similar age. The #1 thing is, don't tell him "don't worry" and then leave him in the dark. He IS worried. And his imagination is filling in the gaps where you're not providing answers. You need to figure out what you want to tell, him and then execute on that. Ideally you and your spouse together, on the same page. [/quote] You can ask your son - Are there any questions you have? Are you worried or nervous about anything? Then reassure him. No matter what happens we can choose how we respond to new information, and agree that we both value responding with integrity and respect. OP - you do need to validate whether the accusation is warranted. If you need a support system for you before you do that fine. Turning a blind eye doesn’t change the environment. [/quote]
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