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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I did also say thank you to DS. But it was quick, since he was in class. I do think I need to talk to him further after school and make sure he knows I appreciate him coming to me and he doesn't need to worry.

But with DH, ugh, I'm not the snooping type and don't want to go down that road. Would much rather just discuss it but of course most people would just lie in response. I don't think I have his current passwords anyway. I've had them in the past when I needed them but I don't know if it's still current or if I remember them accurately.[/quote]

Totally understand this is a situation where you probably wouldn't have a good response in the moment, none of us would! just important to go back and really reassure him later. Sounds like you will.[/quote]

+1. You’re getting good advice in this thread Op. I would specifically acknowledge how brave your son is to share something and you respect his integrity, that it makes you proud. Emphasize that your door is always open, no matter what.

It sounds like you’re living in a happy place, ans don’t want things to come apart. There are different arguments for/against that but the clear priority is supporting your child no matter what follows. Children first. Keep them safe, protected and loved.[/quote]

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