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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dear guests who don't want to attend:

Thank you for your honesty. I understand we are making different choices and that you don't like mine. Please don't make me feel guilty that I still need to move on with my life and don't ask me to reschedule or make me feel guilty for "not including" you[/quote]

OP here. Nope, sorry. All we did was send back the reply card with “regrets.” We didn’t so much as text or call. We checked a box.

And then the phone calls and triangulated campaign started...[/quote]

It would have been nice to at least call or write a proper note with your regrets and wish them well. Checking a box is a bit dismissive. [/quote]

So what?  It doesn't give them license to pressure OP to attend.  Plus, if they are the sorts of people who would do this, I don't blame OP for not calling them, and not giving them any reason (which they would be likely to take offense at, since people who have these kind of events tend to "feel judged" if others don't attend because of concerns about the pandemic).  [/quote]

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