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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. Geez people. I didn’t cheat on my ex bf and I have never been a gold digger. I made my share of mistakes that lead to the breakup but we had several years of happiness together. One of the reasons we grew apart was bc he became hyper focused on becoming rich, which wasn’t important to me. He fell in with a circle of “bros” and changed somewhat from the genuine guy he had been. He moved to another city for a job and I wasn’t supportive. We were young and just starting out professionally  and weren’t ready to compromise for each other. It was a sad breakup. Hearing about him after all this time  was salt in some wounds I didn’t realize still existed. And yeah thinking  about a couple hundred million when I’m in the working parent grind makes me a bit envious. It’s not a good look, I know, which is why I’m complaining on an anonymous forum.

But yes of course it’s ridiculous and  know I don’t want him at this point in my life, and I’m sure Th e feeling is mutual. Just a weird and unexpected feeling. I will get back to focusing on my life and my kids who i wouldn’t trade for a billion dollars. [/quote]

Hi OP, I’m the long winded PP right below and we cross posted. I hear you and didn’t think one critical thought, even while reading others. Most people who read and don’t post are probably identifying in some way with no need to publicly state so. What you just posted is exactly the point I was seeking to address with you. After hearing the personality clash as he went on a new trajectory, I would say you can be thankful that being with you made him step his game up. Your open heart despite the sadness allowed room for true love, and wealth too even if it’s not Bezo dollars. Look at this news as an affirmation and not anything to feel guilty about. The way you may feel if you left a long term employer that you truly loved working with, because the culture changed — ans later had your own success, but heard of a new M&A with the other company. You made the right choice and so did they. Maybe your paths cross again, or maybe your paths are uniquely distinct in the rare windfall you both have the opportunity to walk into as the best version of your self for the time set before you.

Happy Sunday ;)[/quote]

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