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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am surprised by all the people supporting OP. She sounds very cold and harsh. Her brother's requests seem quite reasonable. I think she needs to step up and help him and cut it out with all this "boundaries" crap.[/quote] OP is not responsible for her brother, PERIOD. That she is even willing to provide for him at all is generous and now he is asking for more and more. On an individual basis, wanting a warmer coat sounds reasonable. But as she said, these are examples -- and my experience with mentally ill takers like his is that there is NO END. It's not just go get him a coat -- because he has learned that he asks for x and gets x, so he will keep taking. And he hung up on her when she tried to talk to him about it. So honestly, she is being above and beyond generous, IMO. It will never end with him. [/quote]
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