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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is he “God fearing” or just someone who has come to have strong Christian values? If he wears his values on his sleeve moe on. [/quote]

OP here. We talked more and he is “ spiritually connected with god”. He doesn’t really see himself in church again, but he wants to have a connection with god. [/quote]

Sounds like mental illness. I'm not trying funny, nor am I particularly against religion.  This man is not stable, he's self-medicating.  His first method was indiscriminate sex and partying, possibly drugs, now it's a "spiritual connection".

He should be a hard pass for you, but from all your posts you're going to do it anyway, and  waltz right into heartbreak despite the big bright red flags.[/quote]

OP here. So everyone in their twenties has a mental illness? He did what most twenty somethings do - drinking, going to bars, and hooking up. He has never done drugs. He decided late twenties that he was over that lifestyle and wanted to be a better version of himself. He wanted to be an example for future kids. He grew up. In that time, he got more into god and having a spiritual connection with god. He has been this way for 5 years now. It’s important to him that his partner believes in god and lives their life with god in mind. That is not a mental illness. [/quote]

Do you believe in God and want to live your life with God in mind?  You sort of said you didn’t so I’m confused by your protests here.  A consensus on DCUM is rare and a good indicator.[/quote]

OP here. I'm defending him. He is a great guy. Highly educated, great career, and a great person. He was raised with good values. He has always been kind, respectful, and loving. He did grow up and decide he no longer wanted to disrespect himself and others by having casual sex. He wanted to be an example for his future kids about respecting your body and having sex with only people you're in a commented relationship with and love. [/quote]

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