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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]From your replies, it does seem that the sister does most of the work with your parents. She might have a personality clash with you, but she still put in more work than you. Have you ever said to her directly that you appreciate her taking on the bulk of care for your parents? and ask her how you can be more helpful and then put your side of the story forward and let her know how her words hurt you. [/quote]

I have joined in with her in expressing how great her husband, the newest family member, is with my parents yes. Again, there is no bulk of care yet that she assumes. My mother actually cooks for her and teaches her things she is interested in now, like sewing. My other sister does the dr. Calls more, or again, my brother in law who worked from home also pre pandemic. What she does is visit more (and someimes fight with her more) but yes, that is somethingn of course. Yes, I support that and say thank you. Other people visit my mother too, she is active and we have a large extended family. She needs to win and needs to feel she does the most and i have to just let her have that. I just need it said, she is not a caretaker. She is not nurturing and giving like that. Her husband is. And my other sister is. They are the true heroes. And truly selfless.[/quote]

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