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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If the in-laws really wanted to spend time during holidays they would make an EQUAL effort and not just make passive-aggressive comments to a grandchild. Why isn't anyone questioning why the DH doesn't want to spend a lot of time with his parents? [/quote] This is what I was wondering! Did everyone conveniently gloss over the first couple sentences? MIL issues are with her son, who isn’t interested and thinks the arrangement is fine. [/quote] MIL has relationships with her DIL and grandchildren that are separate from her relationship with her son. They don’t all have to be distant just because the son and MIL are. OP, even if you made the drive once every other year, it would help. It doesn’t have to be each and every time her husband is working. Any chance your family could include MIL one holiday? [/quote] I wouldn't reward someone making snide comments to my child. That isn't how you build a relationship.[/quote]
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