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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No good advice. My brother married his AP. He and his ex wife have split every single holiday / special event. I feel terrible for my nephew that he hangs stockings at one house and then has to drive to the other. He wakes up on Christmas morning at one house but then has to spend Christmas Day at the other. Same with Tgiving, New Year’s, birthday etc. It also means he’ll never be able to travel / be away over holidays while that arrangement is in place. For me personally - living across the country (and my sister lives across the country too) it’s hard that my sister and I and our families have to travel if we all want to be togehter since my brother and his son from his first marriage can’t. Our last family get together my former sister in law had the right to pick which summer weeks she wanted first and wasn’t required to pick until May. My sister and I and our kids couldn’t afford to wait that long. So we just picked a week in August and planned to vacation togehter with my brother and his wife snd kids from 2nd marriage and hoped my former sister in law would let me nephew join. She did but the thought that she might not made me really sad even though I’m sure she’s hurting a ton from how horribly she was treated.[/quote] This is a great example if how divorce has long-lasting consequences for the entire family. Especially your poor nephew who is missing out on time with his extended family. [/quote]
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