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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Same here. It sucks so bad.

I’ve just decided to live my life. I don’t watch what I say anymore or walk on eggshells. If he gets upset I don’t engage.  If he wants something different for dinner, I make it for myself and let him feed the kids. No vacations for now due to COVID, but if we were, I’d just plan my own vacation. I make my own weekend plans.

He’s not happy about it, but at least he’s stopped arguing with me over everything. My guess is that within the next year he’ll meet someone, have an affair, and ask for a divorce. Which is fine with me. [/quote]
Astounding variety of titles for yet another "sexless marriage" thread. He is already having that affair: be grateful because it has saved your marriage and keeps things peaceful.[/quote]

Uh... did you not read what she wrote? Grateful for saving... that? Who in their right mind would wish for such a marriage? She wants him to leave. She wishes he would leave. She just doesn’t want to be the bad guy who initiates the split. [/quote]

If she wanted to divorce, she would get divorced. But she prefers to stay sexlessly married. That’s only possible because of his affair. There is no bad guy here. Just 2 room mates staying together for the kids. And since normal men don’t go celibate, another woman is necessary for their relationship to continue.[/quote]

Give it a rest. You show up in every thread to justify an affair. Just divorce already you coward. What an insufferable spouse you must be [/quote]

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