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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What do you do? You realize they just don't get your sense of humor, you have to watch the words you use, feeling like you're always on eggshells, like there's just an extra something missing that you have with your close friends, male or female? Starting to feel like I need to assess how I want to spend the rest of my life, as if I'm just not 100% comfortable with him. For example, if I make a joke that's a little sarcastic, DH immediately takes offense and says something hurtful. But if I make the same joke to a good friend or close family member, they get it. Or, if I express an opinion that DH disagrees with, he's indignant and can't just let it roll off his back. Or, rather than just asking me to do a favor for him in a nice way, he says it in a commanding, annoyed roommate way? [/quote]

We had this for a long while plus some other "issues." he got pysch tested and it was autism. 
He doesn't get any jokes or plans, have to watch what u say since he can build up anger and let it go at anything, he has no friends, takes no initiative, no energy since he fakes it all day at work and then crashes at 8pm, never cares or asks about anything and likes to argue/ turn anything you've ever said to him against you.

not sure how much longer this will last. [/quote]

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