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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]People are always different and disagree on a lot of things. The point of being in love is having an incentive to look past things, either joke about it, not think about it too much, or work it out. If you're not in love then every single thing grates and is a big deal. Loveless marriage is like driving a car without shocks -- every little bump in the road rattles your bones. The problem is not that the road is bumpy, it's that you have no shock absorbers.[/quote]

OP again. Exactly. This is my problem. He approaches me in a loveless way. Nothing I do is right. One day he went off on me about baking a cake from scratch rather than just using one of the boxes of mix we had in the cabinet because, in his view "we didn't have time for that." Well, we did. We had plenty of time. I wanted to make something different. It all worked out. But he just had to be jerk about making a cake. This kind of crap happens at least every other day. I don't do anything right, nothing I say is correct, I'm always missing the mark... how the heck can I live this way. One day, he said I didn't act fast enough on something-- I think it was some little task like putting dishes away. And I said, well, every time I start to put them away it's not right. [/quote]

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