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Reply to "when you realize you can't be yourself with your spouse"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I've noticed that this dynamic increases in my marriage when DH is feeling down and/or like he is failing at work. I think it's a control thing--he can't control work, but he can control how I boil water or whatever. I think it's also a depression thing--it's 110% true that misery loves company.[/quote] OP here. I think this is also true in my situation. Although I think he's pretty happy at work-- he works for people who seem to appreciate him and bad situations like lousy projects or bosses, don't last long. I often feel like there's something else in his head he doesn't want to get into and that may be whey he likes to control a lot of ridiculous things. He'll want to get into a deep discussion over rearranging the kitchen but likes to avoid bigger picture things. But when those big picture things fail, all my fault. [/quote]
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