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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, what is it exactly that you’re picking up on? Are you feeling like they’re crossing a boundary in their interactions that make you uncomfortable? Do you feel like he’s more emotionally intimate with her than he is with her, or more attentive?

If it’s just a vibe you’re getting but there’s nothing but there’s nothing going on that makes you uncomfortable, or threatens your relationship in some way, then I would just let it go. If you do feel uncomfortable and feel the need to say something, you really need to understand what your motivation is and make sure you’re not acting out of raw jealousy.

[b]They didn’t couple off. She’s married to someone else, and he chose to be with you. I don’t really get how knowing if they ever slept together would have any significance to your own relationship. So I’m guessing you *are* feeling threatened in some way. 
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Because no one in this exact scenario has ever cheated, before but of course blame OP for listening to herself that something isn't right and questioning, it, much easier just to call her insecure, and jealous. I can't with some women.[/quote]

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