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[quote=Anonymous]Of course you married someone who made you feel unseen. In your childhood being unseen = safety. You met DH and were unseen and that sensation made you feel safe and secure. But now that you are safe and secure, you realize you want something different. But I suspect if DH started to “really see you”, you’d freak out and start feeling unsafe again. Because as much as you crave being seen, it scares the crap out of you. You need therapy to work through this. Once you have a better understanding and sense of inner security, you can start asking for what you need from DH. [/quote]
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