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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It sounds like a bad situation, but what if something similar happened to your child at school? You would tell him/her to ignore the other person and focus on themselves and their friends, right? So that's what you need to tell yourself as well. You're not going to move because of this person, so when you run into them, you just ignore them completely.[/quote] This is reasonable advice. I think imagining what we'd tell our kid is a good way to think of things. Sometimes I also imagine what the 80-yr-old version of myself would advise. In this case, the answer to both is to just walk ahead without acknowledging this person, and know in your gut it will get better and easier eventually - some day you will even struggle to remember her name. [/quote]
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