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Reply to "My friends are telling me (f) not to propose to my boyfriend"
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[quote=Anonymous]I wouldn't propose, but would sit down and have a serious conversation with him about the future. I would tell him that I want kids (assuming that is the case), and remind him of the window for that closing really soon if you are 35 (guys can be surprisingly clueless about these things). Then set an expectation for a decision/proposal, say a few months from now. Make it clear that if you guys are not engaged, with a firm wedding date by that time, you will be moving on. Some guys just need a little extra push to finally get moving. My fantastic DH of 22 years is similar - not on the proposal front, he proposed 6 months after we met - but he seems to take forever pulling the trigger on many, much easier and routine decisions. [/quote]
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