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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There's affection but not much sex in my marriage. Pre-pandemic we were down to probably once every 4-6 weeks. During the pandemic it's been once every 10 weeks or so.

This caused me a fair amount of distress for a few years. But I've more or less made my peace with it. My libido has been declining as I approach 50, I use porn a lot, and I've learned not to take her disinterest in sex as a reflection on my worth as a person.

The sex issue aside, we get along very well, joke a lot, have good kids, respect the hell out of each other, and all that good stuff. Just very limited sex. [/quote]

This is basically my marriage.  You think you will be faithful?  I can't imagine "this is it" for me at age 47.  The marriage is good but I am pretty sure I will cheat when the opportunity comes along.[/quote]

Yeah, I'll be faithful. My distress about the situation is declining, and I take loyalty very seriously. Part of the reason I'm not more distressed than I am is because I know 100% that my wife has my back. Even if we're not having much sex, I can repay loyalty for loyalty. [/quote]

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