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[quote=Anonymous]I don't think it's fair to paint all women who are TTC with the same brush.  Certainly, some of them are unreasonable, self-centered, and self-involved, but that is true of many people in many facets of their life.  But would it hurt you to understand some people don't feel exactly like you do about things-like having children?  Maybe you've tried, not succeeded, and as you state yourself, are fine with it.  But not everyone is, and have some respect for them!  I have a close friend who is suffering from secondary infertility, and you better believe I am careful what I say around her.  Does she expect me to be?  No.  But that's what people who were raised properly do, especially for a friend.  I think you need to be careful that you're so upset over egg-shell walking you don't go the opposite direction...

Over-the-top actions, like urging for an abortion, or cutting off family due to them having children are obviously ridiculous.  But I don't think most women who are TTC demand egg-shell walking.  IMO, it's completely normal for someone not to want to see tons of pics of adorable children while they themselves are dealing with not having their own.  They aren't demanding special treatment, just being honest about how they feel.  
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