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[quote=Anonymous]If MIL went straight to “Shall I pack up the stew for you too?” rather than, “Will the two of you stay for dinner? If not, I can pack up the stew for you too,” then she was not bothered by OP and dh leaving right then. There’s a difference between inviting people to stay versus suggesting that you can pack their dinner for them to take home.

I have no idea what’s wrong with OP’s arm, but it doesn’t sound outlandish to me that she’d already “sucked it up” for hours and hours and just needed to end the day. I once went to BIL’s for a Super Bowl party and started getting a headache. I was fine for 5-6 hours, but we had a long Metro ride home and in the middle of it, my headache developed into a full blown migraine, which was unusual for me. I knew I was going to vomit if I didn’t get off the Metro immediately. I was really miserable. We took a cab the rest of the way home, and as miserable as I still felt, it was 100x better than being on the Metro. If OP was similarly at her breaking point, then she needed to communicate that to her dh. If she did communicate that and he didn’t care, that’s a problem.

OP, is there any history of you and MIL not getting along? Maybe that’s what your dh thought was the issue. You and he need to have an honest and open conversation.[/quote]

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