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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]if you like order and peace and control- no if you like chaos and noise and disorder and expense- yes I had 4 kids (youngest are twins) and my personality was not suited for it. I'm kinda impatient, like order and some semblance of control, and having 4 kids is kinda driving me into a slight mental breakdown. There is so much noise and chaos in our house that I can't think clearly, except for when I go to work. Plus, the older they get, the huge responsibilities of school and saving for college really start to weigh on you. It also puts a lot of stress on a marriage. So, if you are super laid back and wealthy- go for it. [/quote] This is, hands-down, the most helpful thing I have read on DCUM. I used to teach, and always thought I wanted four kids, but I hate the mess. Good to hear confirmation from someone who has BTDT that I will be happiest with two. I am neither super laid-back, nor wealthy. [/quote]
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